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Part 1 of the novel is an incredible build-up. I want more than one LGBTQ film a year to be celebrated by the mainstream media. Yet life without so-and-so was simply unthinkable.

People. Perhaps I’m projecting my own desire to read a character like me onto this novel.

I want a lot of things out of queer media that will take years to obtain, maybe beyond my lifetime.

I never saw a mainstream film that reflected my experience until ‘Call Me By Your Name.’

Every year, one LGBTQ movie seems to generate enough buzz to make its way into the mainstream. The people Elio’s shared his bed with. But there are so many more stories to be told.

If anything, what I see about queerness online is concentrated on how people (men) are trying to push a new identity into the lexicon: “mostly straight.” It’s so pervasive, in fact, that there’s a new book all about the term — and more men identify as “mostly straight” than either gay or bisexual.

The concept is one that frustrates me, but doesn’t shock me: men who are not straight but also not gay would rather identify as predominantly straight than queer, or bi, or anything else.

If anything, she is a distraction Elio willingly takes when he thinks he and Oliver won’t ever go beyond acquaintanceship. I was watching people that were far away from me, both in location and mindset. Despite being a point of contention for the audience, the age gap between the characters serves the story well on several levels, and Elio’s being a teenager at this juncture makes the whole affair even more potent and impactful.

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From Elio’s perspective, things are a bit confusing as this is the first time he has been attracted to someone of the same sex.

It’s a one-sided conversation, almost like a diary entry.

Years ago I began to retreat to literature and film to find similar narratives to mine. Reading headlines like “More Men Than You Think Identify As ‘Mostly Straight’” makes me question myself again, reinforces the loneliness I feel.

I picked up Call Me By Your Name to feel less alone.

This book does retain some of that classic narrative.

This isn’t because Marzia wasn’t a man, though. I can speak from personal experience that coming to terms with your sexual identity is NOT an overnight process, and it is almost inconceivable that he accepts his identity as quickly as he did. But I still want more characters whose sexual fluidity is apparent and explicit like Elio’s.

Now onto the positive! We hardly get to know them as people, and it feels like they are included out of obligation. They were gay and ashamed. In turn, I’m genuinely eager to hear them, but they can’t relate. The novel ends on a hopeful note, but it’s ambivalent at best and tragic at worst.

Brokeback Mountain and The Price of Salt are in the gay literature canon, and they should be.

We see him fooling around with Marzia, and while he doesn’t seem to be as romantically attached to her as he later gets with Oliver, it is clear that he does feel some attraction towards her. Sexuality, however, doesn’t work like that.

There are several signs that point towards the bisexuality of one or both characters.

They were gay and ashamed. What was left out was the last section, which takes place 20 years after Elio and Oliver’s summer together.

While Elio is never in love with Marzia, he is genuinely attracted to her physically and sexually. In Brokeback, Ennis and Jack are drawn together despite impossible circumstances, as are Carol and Therese in Carol.

The spouses in those stories are antagonists.