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He’s done admirable good for Black gay organizations and publicly atoned for the misinformation his personal testimony led to; but the archetype he embodied remains a boogeyman in the heterosexual psyche, and, sadly, a role model for some Black gay men.

Disrespecting Self, Abdicating Power

Concealing the truth about one’s identity was long the default setting for homosexuality, although we are hardly the only minority in which some can strategically downplay membership to escape majoritarian judgment or wrath.

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Hyped as an existential plague for Black America, the down-low has always been, and stubbornly remains, a stylized closet.

The inclusion of “on the down-low” in songs by R. Kelly and TLC gave it sexual connotations in the ‘90s, and “DL” was among the earliest shorthands when arranging covert liaisons in the new world of internet dating.

“While white gay and bisexual men were granted victimhood in the narrative about their lives in the closet, any Black gay man who was not upfront about his sexual orientation suddenly became an AIDS superspreader lying in wait — a pathology whose taint soon splashed onto Black openly gay men, and ultimately Black men altogether.”

While plenty of Black gay and bisexual men described themselves as DL in their online profiles to indicate they were not out of the closet, the casual term underwent a formal redefinition in an August 2003 article in the New York Times Magazine.

Much has been made about Black women’s unwillingness to date a man who has had any sexual encounter with another man (let alone a fully bisexual man), but gay men would be just as quick to call a man a queen if we learned of the slightest sexual experimentation.

There is no Kinsey scale for Black men, no difference in how the twos and sixes are perceived or treated.

However, grown men silencing their truth is unlikely to lead them to satisfaction, nor protect those who are more vulnerable. I thought of DL men while watching the recent viral video of a young Black boy being abused by a group of family members for being effeminate, and imagined how a gay man who takes pride in inhabiting such hetero-aggressive spaces might’ve been able to expand the adults’ understanding of who gay people are, and who gay children can become.

That would be a far more genuine flex of masculine prowess than indulging in DL cosplay on social media.

Ryan Lee

Ryan Lee is a freelance writer in Atlanta and a columnist for The Georgia Voice, which focuses on LGBTQ issues in the south.

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Before the turn of the century, plenty of Black folks used “on the down-low” as a synonym for discretion; and the term could apply to any private activity, from a teenager smoking weed to a grandma slipping a $20 bill into a child’s hands.

The distrust provoked by DL-themed media coverage also poisoned Black heterosexual relationships, as straight Black women (especially in a city like Atlanta) began fearing whether their suitors or even their husbands, liked dick as much as they did.

Never mind how the overwhelming majority of Black gay men who identified as being on the down-low -- including the porn stars who helped the DL/Hood genre gain dominance over the last two decades -- had little or no intimate contact with members of the opposite sex.

The Black gay and bisexual experience in America has not been the same since, with “Double Lives on the Down Low” crystallizing the public’s perception of this demographic as predatory, duplicitous, and responsible for alarmingly disproportionate rates of HIV among straight black women.

According to writer Benoit Denizet-Lewis, Black men who identified as being on the down-low, or DL, had an undetectable desire for gay sex, which they sated in the shadows while maintaining relationships with girlfriends and wives.

While a handful of people of all ethnicities retain violent opposition to LGBTQ people, Black families and social circles have consistently disproven the myth that they are exceptionally hateful and incapable of loving transformation when one of their own comes out.

“All the blame for the down-low cannot be placed on those who embrace that label.

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The origins of the down-low identity are just as farcical, although it’s hard to be amused by the way an African-American colloquialism morphed into a pejorative against Black gay and bisexual men.

Those who fight to be respected for being DL (which itself is a laughable paradox) believe this identity preserves their proximity to “real manhood,” but it simply routes them through an imitation of life. 

The closeted men on social media who fetishize fooling people, and revel in the power of supposedly controlling what others know about their double-life, seem oblivious to the weakness betrayed in ceding dominion over one’s experiences, emotions, and testimonies to other people’s perceptions.

Even in the most affirming circumstances, it is difficult to not lose parts of one’s individuality when you are lumped in with others, which is particularly conflicting when the group’s image does not match your own.

All the blame for the down-low cannot be placed on those who embrace that label. He's either gay or straight, and this absence of nuance is intimidating even for men who would like to be more honest about their sexual fluidity.

With an HIV epidemic raging among African-Americans, the down-low was a convenient rationalization of the numbers and diverted attention from how the most hard-hit populations had been neglected by public health systems and campaigns.

“Hyped as an existential plague for Black America, the down-low has always been, and stubbornly remains, a stylized closet.

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For some men on the down low, receiving acceptance can seem as intimidating as being rejected, and they fear being consumed by people’s preconceptions of what it means to be gay. An outdated coping mechanism cannot be upcycled into a badge of honor, especially when it still results in fear and shame of oneself.

Some defend the continued existence of the down-low based on lingering intolerance, and the suggestion that Black families and communities remain too hostile for everyone to come out.

Those who fight to be respected for being DL (which itself is a laughable paradox) believe this identity preserves their proximity to “real manhood,” but it simply routes them through an imitation of life.”

Meanwhile, the Pied Piper of the Down Low, the main character in Denizet-Lewis’s article, further safeguarded the secrets of his order by appearing on Oprah’s talk show and writing a New York Times bestselling book, “On the Down Low: A Journey Into the Lives of ‘Straight’ Black Men Who Sleep With Men.” Ever since J.L.

King has been a national socialite on the Black gay scene -- no shade.

King has always been exceedingly polite and gracious whenever we’ve bumped into each other over the years, even though I was among the first journalists to conduct a skeptical interview and write an article calling bullshit on many of his claims.

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